We can thank modern feminism for making women believe they’re exempt from accountability and criticism. Men must beware, as being honest with your girlfriend may lead to your private matters becoming public.
Pop singer and songwriter Bebe Rexha shoved her personal matters into the spotlight after she reportedly posted a screenshot of a text message on Instagram that addressed her weight gain and a possible breakup.
While the now-deleted screenshot doesn’t reveal the identity of the sender, many have assumed it to be her ex-boyfriend, filmmaker and production company owner Keyan Safyari.
“I never said you weren’t beautiful and I never said I didn’t love you,” the sender assures her. “But I always said I would be honest with you and your face was changing so I told you it was. That was the conversation we were having and you asked.”
Singer Bebe Rexha publicly DUMPS her boyfriend and shared text messages of him letting her know she’s gained a little too much weight-AFTER SHE ASKED.
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The sender continued by asking if she’d rather hear a lie.
“You gained 35 pounds obviously you gained weight and your face changes? Should I just pretend it didn’t happen and that it’s ok?” the message read. “Come on I gain 3 pounds and you call me chubbs and fat. Doesn’t mean you don’t love me.”
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“You know I always found you to be beautiful and loved you no matter what.” the text adds. “I think it’s important to think about things and write things down, speak to a therapist and do this retreat thing to get to the root of the problem.”
"Let me know if you'd like to speak if you need more clarity," the message ended. "Love you."
This incident is an example of an immense problem permeating our society today. The body-positivity movement continues to deceive women by affirming their unhealthy weight and clothing sizes, while modern feminism tells women they are exempt from criticism and accountability – especially from their male counterparts.
At the same time, men are persecuted now for being honest with their significant others and attempting to hold them accountable. How does a man love his girlfriend if he can’t respectfully tell her the truth? And, that’s only a glimpse of how modern feminism continues to scrutinize men for upholding decent principles.
Instead of retaliating against a significant other in hopes of seeking validation for her toxic traits, Rexha needs to heal behind closed doors and take responsibility for her actions.
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